"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what to say in first email, after email close?

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I know this sounds odd but I approached a girl on Monday in metro and talked for some time, but haven't got back to her. so what should I say in the e-mail to not seem like some creep, and at least get a response back...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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u talked to her..........in person.............did u get her email.......why did u not get her number.

When u call a chic its for a purpose..........direct to the point and state your purpose,

EMAILS ARE FOR extracting conversation transitions.........number requests, IM user names, etc. Humor is key here.
 

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yeah be like... "hey if you want me to talk to you again, I'll need your phone number, because theres a red flashing sign on my computer that says it's going to blow up in 5 seconds... uh oh I gotta go bye!!"
 

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THanks

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
yeah be like... "hey if you want me to talk to you again, I'll need your phone number, because theres a red flashing sign on my computer that says it's going to blow up in 5 seconds... uh oh I gotta go bye!!"
man for the idea, it never hurts to try, it ain't going anywhere anyways right..
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh for cripes sake fellas, what are you trying to be, pen pals? Just say that you're going to be somewhere at a certain time and she should meet you there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Canadien said:
it ain't going anywhere anyways right..
yeah thats the thing.. for the average person, you probably succeed with less than 10% of the girls you approach, so don't expect much unless they somehow admire you a lot.
 

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Wolf said:
"Hey I'm gonna go to *place* today, you can come tag along if you like"

Hmm I dunno whether it's as effective over email...
"I'm going to be at [someplace] on [someday] at [sometime], you should meet me there."
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If you must wait until the last minute and want to ask a woman to meet you somewhere that same day, pick up the telephone.
 
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