That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
man for the idea, it never hurts to try, it ain't going anywhere anyways right..Grand Wizzard Alamar said:yeah be like... "hey if you want me to talk to you again, I'll need your phone number, because theres a red flashing sign on my computer that says it's going to blow up in 5 seconds... uh oh I gotta go bye!!"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
yeah thats the thing.. for the average person, you probably succeed with less than 10% of the girls you approach, so don't expect much unless they somehow admire you a lot.Canadien said:it ain't going anywhere anyways right..
Wolf said:"Hey I'm gonna go to *place* today, you can come tag along if you like"
Hmm I dunno whether it's as effective over email...