"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what to say in first email, after email close?

Canadien

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I know this sounds odd but I approached a girl on Monday in metro and talked for some time, but haven't got back to her. so what should I say in the e-mail to not seem like some creep, and at least get a response back...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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u talked to her..........in person.............did u get her email.......why did u not get her number.

When u call a chic its for a purpose..........direct to the point and state your purpose,

EMAILS ARE FOR extracting conversation transitions.........number requests, IM user names, etc. Humor is key here.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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yeah be like... "hey if you want me to talk to you again, I'll need your phone number, because theres a red flashing sign on my computer that says it's going to blow up in 5 seconds... uh oh I gotta go bye!!"
 

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THanks

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
yeah be like... "hey if you want me to talk to you again, I'll need your phone number, because theres a red flashing sign on my computer that says it's going to blow up in 5 seconds... uh oh I gotta go bye!!"
man for the idea, it never hurts to try, it ain't going anywhere anyways right..
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh for cripes sake fellas, what are you trying to be, pen pals? Just say that you're going to be somewhere at a certain time and she should meet you there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Canadien said:
it ain't going anywhere anyways right..
yeah thats the thing.. for the average person, you probably succeed with less than 10% of the girls you approach, so don't expect much unless they somehow admire you a lot.
 

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Wolf said:
"Hey I'm gonna go to *place* today, you can come tag along if you like"

Hmm I dunno whether it's as effective over email...
"I'm going to be at [someplace] on [someday] at [sometime], you should meet me there."
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If you must wait until the last minute and want to ask a woman to meet you somewhere that same day, pick up the telephone.
 
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