"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What to say in first e-mail

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Ok, so this hot girl was in my orientation group the past 2 days, she is going to be a cheerleader at my college. Well, we really didn't talk much but i got her e-mail and want to pursue something with her. I just got back today and don't want to e-mail right away cause that would come off as desperate.

But in a few days when i decide to e-mail her, what should i say? Classes start in less then a month and we will both be freshmen at our college.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So pimp its scary

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E-mail is for nerds and pedophiles.

You gotta get the PHONE NUMBER at the very least. Hell, if you can get laid the same day you meet her, why would you cut yourself off and just get her number?
 

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She gave me her home phone number too, but in a month it won't be any good cause we'll both be in college, so I need to get her cell. David D. seems to have no problem with using e-mail. I was figuring I could e-mail to get a little rapport then ask for her cell number.
 

So pimp its scary

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Is her home number still working today?

If yes, then call her to get that rapport that you need, and get her cell number.

If not, then I suppose an exception would HAVE to be made to use the e-mail, but this will only bear fruit if she already has high IL.

DYD recommends asking for the e-mail so that you have a bridge to ask her for her number also.

YOU HAVE HER NUMBER BUT YOU'RE GOING TO E-MAIL HER?!?! Quit making excuses, kick up your skirt, grab your balls and call this lil cutie.
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
E-mail is for nerds and pedophiles.

GEEKS and pedophiles.

Go watch Cruel Intentions again. :p



Or maybe you had it right and I was wrong. Wouldn't be the first time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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