"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to say in first e-mail

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Ok, so this hot girl was in my orientation group the past 2 days, she is going to be a cheerleader at my college. Well, we really didn't talk much but i got her e-mail and want to pursue something with her. I just got back today and don't want to e-mail right away cause that would come off as desperate.

But in a few days when i decide to e-mail her, what should i say? Classes start in less then a month and we will both be freshmen at our college.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So pimp its scary

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E-mail is for nerds and pedophiles.

You gotta get the PHONE NUMBER at the very least. Hell, if you can get laid the same day you meet her, why would you cut yourself off and just get her number?
 

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She gave me her home phone number too, but in a month it won't be any good cause we'll both be in college, so I need to get her cell. David D. seems to have no problem with using e-mail. I was figuring I could e-mail to get a little rapport then ask for her cell number.
 

So pimp its scary

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Is her home number still working today?

If yes, then call her to get that rapport that you need, and get her cell number.

If not, then I suppose an exception would HAVE to be made to use the e-mail, but this will only bear fruit if she already has high IL.

DYD recommends asking for the e-mail so that you have a bridge to ask her for her number also.

YOU HAVE HER NUMBER BUT YOU'RE GOING TO E-MAIL HER?!?! Quit making excuses, kick up your skirt, grab your balls and call this lil cutie.
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
E-mail is for nerds and pedophiles.

GEEKS and pedophiles.

Go watch Cruel Intentions again. :p



Or maybe you had it right and I was wrong. Wouldn't be the first time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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