"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to say if she asks you if you like her?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hmmm... turn around, let me see you.... mmm yeah, I suppose so.. you could do better though.


This depends on the kind of relationship you have with this woman
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Gungalley
What should you say if a girl asks you if you like her?
"Tell me why I should like you."

It's apparent she wants some reassurance, I'll give it to her if she merits it. The only way to tell is if SHE recognizes why she deserves the recognition/reassurance. If she hasn't done anything thus unable to tell me, why should I give her a freebie?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hate that question so much. I always feel like saying "No." Maybe that is because it is usually girls I don't really like who ask me those types of questions. "Do you like my hair/shoes/this/that"

I say sometimes "Maybe... its a secret"

But I just don't want to give a direct answer.

So I'm subscribing to this thread to hear a possible better answer.
 
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