"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to say if she asks you if you like her?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmmm... turn around, let me see you.... mmm yeah, I suppose so.. you could do better though.


This depends on the kind of relationship you have with this woman
 
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Originally posted by Gungalley
What should you say if a girl asks you if you like her?
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"Tell me why I should like you."

It's apparent she wants some reassurance, I'll give it to her if she merits it. The only way to tell is if SHE recognizes why she deserves the recognition/reassurance. If she hasn't done anything thus unable to tell me, why should I give her a freebie?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I hate that question so much. I always feel like saying "No." Maybe that is because it is usually girls I don't really like who ask me those types of questions. "Do you like my hair/shoes/this/that"

I say sometimes "Maybe... its a secret"

But I just don't want to give a direct answer.

So I'm subscribing to this thread to hear a possible better answer.
 
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