"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to say if a girl catches you looking?

base2ball2boy2

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I was inspecting this fine HB 8 the other day, and I contemplated the concept of letting her catch me inspecting her rear end (which looked fantastic in the pants she was wearing). But I couldn't think of anything witty to say in order to lighten up the situation. Stun me with your wisdom and creativity.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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eaglez1177

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^Hahahaha

If a girl catches me looking, I dont spend time thinking about what to say to her; I act on impulse and go right ahead for the approach
 

zekko

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I'll confess I do let them catch me looking sometimes, it just sort of amuses me. I'll be looking at their butt, and they'll turn around, and as soon as they look at my eyes, I'll look away quickly with a sort of embarassed grin on my face. Maybe that's AFC, I don't know, but I get the sense it's kind of a bonding experience for us (seriously). It kind of says, I know you know I was looking, but hey I liked what I saw.

I'm in a LTR though, so I don't have to proceed to an approach. I usually do this with girls I know. I'm not recommending it as some sort of pickup method by any means(lol). Just a bit of fun.
 
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