the pain
Don Juan
hi im sitting in an internet café and this girl is sitting and terning her back to me what to say she is just in front of me
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what to say fast
- Thread starter the pain
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"are you wearing a 36dd sized bra? I can see the tag through your clothing"
"excuse me hot lady, I dropped my pen under your chair, could you get it for me?"
"hey was that a porn site I saw? you naughty girl"
Tom121: don't listen to this idiot
muahaha I am the evil version of Tom121
"excuse me hot lady, I dropped my pen under your chair, could you get it for me?"
"hey was that a porn site I saw? you naughty girl"
Tom121: don't listen to this idiot
muahaha I am the evil version of Tom121
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Hi, my name is the pain. What's your name?
Just because she has boobs doesn't mean talking to her is any different from talking to any other person you don't know.
You could start by saying something like, "Hey, do you know how late this place is open?" When she answers say, "Thanks...my name is "Insert your name here", what's your's?"
"Chatting with your boyfriend?"
Making conversation is easy.
You could start by saying something like, "Hey, do you know how late this place is open?" When she answers say, "Thanks...my name is "Insert your name here", what's your's?"
"Chatting with your boyfriend?"
Making conversation is easy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.