last night i met some girl at a party and i went back to her apt. so all we did was just cuddle on the bed and i left halfway through the night. she walked me out and on the way out i was contemplating asking for her number but decided not to go for it becuz i just didnt care enough to get it(partly cuz i didnt have interest in continuing anything past this instance). The reason i didnt ask for her number wasnt because i was scared, in fact im very good at number closing. So I left to go back home. The next morning i check my fb and she has added me and just sent me a msg that says "i wish youd grow a pair and ask for my number." im kinda in shock that she would say something like that to me. i didnt have any intention of getting her number but now it makes me look bad that i didnt go for it even though i didnt want to. So how should i reply to her? never had this happen to me before. thanks guys
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what to say back to this girl? need help
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