last night i met some girl at a party and i went back to her apt. so all we did was just cuddle on the bed and i left halfway through the night. she walked me out and on the way out i was contemplating asking for her number but decided not to go for it becuz i just didnt care enough to get it(partly cuz i didnt have interest in continuing anything past this instance). The reason i didnt ask for her number wasnt because i was scared, in fact im very good at number closing. So I left to go back home. The next morning i check my fb and she has added me and just sent me a msg that says "i wish youd grow a pair and ask for my number." im kinda in shock that she would say something like that to me. i didnt have any intention of getting her number but now it makes me look bad that i didnt go for it even though i didnt want to. So how should i reply to her? never had this happen to me before. thanks guys
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what to say back to this girl? need help
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