"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bongo

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Hello ambitious DJ's ,

I used to talk to a girl years ago online, let call her Shay. Saw her a couple of times but was never really interested in her. I still have her added on Facebook, and now we're just aquaintances. ( we never really talk anymore )

If you're familiar with Facebook, you know people get tagged in pictures. Shay has a really hot friend who I want to fuvck. I saw her name on a tagged picture, clicked on it and sent her a friend request.

Couple hours later she sends me a PM, asking:" Who's this ?". I haven't replied yet cause I don't know what to say. Any C&F answers to this ? Or was it a bad idea to friend request her on Facebook ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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J. Darko

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Let me ask you something: do you think girls are stupid? Do you think that girls have a brain the size of a peanutt? Do you think that girls are poor creatures that suffer from a lack of intelligence?

I hope not, because I can tell you now that she already knows who you are and she already knows that you want to stick your bat in her cave. Why would she have any interest in you?

This move is desperate and nerdy.



If I were to save face, I would reply: ''wrong number''.
 
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Tesl

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Yep, very lame. Well said Darko.

If I was determined, I'd be tempted to just make something up. Just say "Didn't we meet at XYZ like half a year ago?"

Of course, she probably wouldn't fall for that either, but you never know.
 
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