"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bongo

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Hello ambitious DJ's ,

I used to talk to a girl years ago online, let call her Shay. Saw her a couple of times but was never really interested in her. I still have her added on Facebook, and now we're just aquaintances. ( we never really talk anymore )

If you're familiar with Facebook, you know people get tagged in pictures. Shay has a really hot friend who I want to fuvck. I saw her name on a tagged picture, clicked on it and sent her a friend request.

Couple hours later she sends me a PM, asking:" Who's this ?". I haven't replied yet cause I don't know what to say. Any C&F answers to this ? Or was it a bad idea to friend request her on Facebook ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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J. Darko

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Let me ask you something: do you think girls are stupid? Do you think that girls have a brain the size of a peanutt? Do you think that girls are poor creatures that suffer from a lack of intelligence?

I hope not, because I can tell you now that she already knows who you are and she already knows that you want to stick your bat in her cave. Why would she have any interest in you?

This move is desperate and nerdy.



If I were to save face, I would reply: ''wrong number''.
 
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Tesl

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Yep, very lame. Well said Darko.

If I was determined, I'd be tempted to just make something up. Just say "Didn't we meet at XYZ like half a year ago?"

Of course, she probably wouldn't fall for that either, but you never know.
 
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