"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to look for as far as herpes/cold sores are concerned?.. (pic)

fruitopiax

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http://img178.imageshack.us/img178/5113/etobicokedating22500799nr0.jpg

I sometimes see girls with this sort of bump over their lip. This is a cold sore right? How does this relate to herpes. You should avoid kissing a girl with this right? What about girls who have a bump further up their upper lip closer to their nose and further to the side of their face that doesn't ever really go, like Cindy Crawford. Thats just a birthmark right?

http://img147.imageshack.us/img147/1662/dundasmatchmaking155295bs3.jpg

^ thats the Cindy Crawford type I was talking about
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sandow

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ok first off, dont even think about getting with that thing in the 1st pic.

I've never had a cold sore, but a lot of people do have it. It's a form of herpes, just not genital herpes.

Whenever I see a girl with a coldsore I immediately disqualify her.
 

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Sandow said:
ok first off, dont even think about getting with that thing in the 1st pic.

I've never had a cold sore, but a lot of people do have it. It's a form of herpes, just not genital herpes.

Whenever I see a girl with a coldsore I immediately disqualify her.
I'm gonna have to side with Sandow on this one. If I see a girl with a coldsore, I immediately disqualify her. However I also agree with Phat Rabbit, if your too careful, your willy will never get wet, so you pick your battles.

I'll bang an escort but I won't bang a girl with a coldsore. However you never know who actually has herpes.
 
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