"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok this girl agreed to do something with me on wednesday, were seeing each other, i want to get some. This is where i always screw up , i never know where the **** to go or what the **** to do with a gir. Im not doing the the lame go to the movies than drop her off thing. I could try the come over to my house and rent a movie Bs but thats kind of getting old. Im not going to invite myself over to her house. So she'll have to come to mine and my ****ing mom is home. What the **** do i do with her? play monopoly? watch tv?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hockey Playa said:
ok this girl agreed to do something with me on wednesday, were seeing each other, i want to get some. This is where i always screw up , i never know where the **** to go or what the **** to do with a gir. Im not doing the the lame go to the movies than drop her off thing. I could try the come over to my house and rent a movie Bs but thats kind of getting old. Im not going to invite myself over to her house. So she'll have to come to mine and my ****ing mom is home. What the **** do i do with her? play monopoly? watch tv?
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I'd suggest strip Candyland as the game to play.
 
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The #1 mistake guys make with early dates is putting too much time into thinking about it.

Something as simple as taking a walk can always lead into more intimate situation (walking back to her place or yours). Show this girl that you're unlike in other guy in your school. Don't be corny and ask her to the movies or even to your house. Act as if you want to get to know her.

This is why taking a walk somewhere is perfect. It's never the same, and as long as you joke around with her and make her laugh every now and then, she'll appreciate every second of it. Slip some kino in and even nudge her off the sidewalk a little bit in playful way.

Almost all the girls I've taken on walks at college have ended up in my bed sooner or later. Besides that, it's good practice! Talking one on one takes a lot of balls, but isn't as hard as you think!
 
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