"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok this girl agreed to do something with me on wednesday, were seeing each other, i want to get some. This is where i always screw up , i never know where the **** to go or what the **** to do with a gir. Im not doing the the lame go to the movies than drop her off thing. I could try the come over to my house and rent a movie Bs but thats kind of getting old. Im not going to invite myself over to her house. So she'll have to come to mine and my ****ing mom is home. What the **** do i do with her? play monopoly? watch tv?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hockey Playa said:
ok this girl agreed to do something with me on wednesday, were seeing each other, i want to get some. This is where i always screw up , i never know where the **** to go or what the **** to do with a gir. Im not doing the the lame go to the movies than drop her off thing. I could try the come over to my house and rent a movie Bs but thats kind of getting old. Im not going to invite myself over to her house. So she'll have to come to mine and my ****ing mom is home. What the **** do i do with her? play monopoly? watch tv?
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I'd suggest strip Candyland as the game to play.
 
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The #1 mistake guys make with early dates is putting too much time into thinking about it.

Something as simple as taking a walk can always lead into more intimate situation (walking back to her place or yours). Show this girl that you're unlike in other guy in your school. Don't be corny and ask her to the movies or even to your house. Act as if you want to get to know her.

This is why taking a walk somewhere is perfect. It's never the same, and as long as you joke around with her and make her laugh every now and then, she'll appreciate every second of it. Slip some kino in and even nudge her off the sidewalk a little bit in playful way.

Almost all the girls I've taken on walks at college have ended up in my bed sooner or later. Besides that, it's good practice! Talking one on one takes a lot of balls, but isn't as hard as you think!
 
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