"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Snoop

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Okay im a freshman and I havent gone out with any girls since 8th grade (like 5 months ago). Now this one chick likes me but she's like a 5 or 6, and I dont know if I should ask her out because i usually go out with 8 & 9's. Now would you guys go out with the hb5 just to end the dry-spell or should I stick to high standards so people dont see me as kind of desperate.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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08aisaac

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Don't go out with 5's, it's not fun. It will show you as easy. They have to be atleast hot.
 

immrtlwun

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I might sound stupid for saying this, but try to get LJBF'd.

Almost every girl has hot friends. If you treat her well, but don't come across as sexually attracted to her, she'll talk well about you to her other friends and you might make some connections to hot girls.
 
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