"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Snoop

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Okay im a freshman and I havent gone out with any girls since 8th grade (like 5 months ago). Now this one chick likes me but she's like a 5 or 6, and I dont know if I should ask her out because i usually go out with 8 & 9's. Now would you guys go out with the hb5 just to end the dry-spell or should I stick to high standards so people dont see me as kind of desperate.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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08aisaac

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Don't go out with 5's, it's not fun. It will show you as easy. They have to be atleast hot.
 

immrtlwun

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I might sound stupid for saying this, but try to get LJBF'd.

Almost every girl has hot friends. If you treat her well, but don't come across as sexually attracted to her, she'll talk well about you to her other friends and you might make some connections to hot girls.
 
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