"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OK, as all of you know (if you read my posts), I met this girl and have been dating here for a little while now. So, I am at her place and for some reason her roommate starts telling me what a tramp my girl is, and that she banged half the basketball team at one time or another last semester at school (before the summer). She also told me one of the players even knocked her up and that she had an abortion so it wouldn’t hurt his chances (whatever that is supposed to mean)

The roommate tells me she is telling me this, just so I know. She also told me that my girl really likes me, and she hasn’t been with anyone since she met me

Ok, I know the girl is STD free. I had her tested, but just knowing she is/was a tramp and was doing who knows what with all those players makes me kind of uneasy

Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its a tough one. if she cheated on her previous boyfriends, its one thing; but if she just slept with a couple of guys, it might not be horrible.

i guess just keep an eye out and look for more signs. also, don't necessarily trust the roomie, who knows what her motives are.
 

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I imagine the roomate isnt as hott as the one you are now 'hittin. Jealousy, and cattiness, quite natural among females. She wants to fukk up her roomies game for whatever reason. So your girl was no saint before she met you? Who cares, as long as she is honest now. If you two get into a commitment phase, only then do other men have to exit the picture.

Wanna fukk with the roomates head? Next time she tells you how much of a whorre she is, tell her that thats what you like in a woman, and ask her where her man is.
 

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Well, I know she was hanging out with a few od the B-players last semester, so she very well could have been banging them.

I hear you on not trusting the the roomate.

Not too sure how I feel knowing she has been knocked up by a ball player either
 

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Called her up and asked her about it,

She said it was true......the pregnancy and all......and that she went through "a phase" where she liked the black basketball player type.

She told me she was with 6 of them and probably hooked up with 5 or 6 other guys during that "phase"

I just have a totally different image of her now, don't think it is going to last knowing this
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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