"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OK, as all of you know (if you read my posts), I met this girl and have been dating here for a little while now. So, I am at her place and for some reason her roommate starts telling me what a tramp my girl is, and that she banged half the basketball team at one time or another last semester at school (before the summer). She also told me one of the players even knocked her up and that she had an abortion so it wouldn’t hurt his chances (whatever that is supposed to mean)

The roommate tells me she is telling me this, just so I know. She also told me that my girl really likes me, and she hasn’t been with anyone since she met me

Ok, I know the girl is STD free. I had her tested, but just knowing she is/was a tramp and was doing who knows what with all those players makes me kind of uneasy

Any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its a tough one. if she cheated on her previous boyfriends, its one thing; but if she just slept with a couple of guys, it might not be horrible.

i guess just keep an eye out and look for more signs. also, don't necessarily trust the roomie, who knows what her motives are.
 

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I imagine the roomate isnt as hott as the one you are now 'hittin. Jealousy, and cattiness, quite natural among females. She wants to fukk up her roomies game for whatever reason. So your girl was no saint before she met you? Who cares, as long as she is honest now. If you two get into a commitment phase, only then do other men have to exit the picture.

Wanna fukk with the roomates head? Next time she tells you how much of a whorre she is, tell her that thats what you like in a woman, and ask her where her man is.
 

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Well, I know she was hanging out with a few od the B-players last semester, so she very well could have been banging them.

I hear you on not trusting the the roomate.

Not too sure how I feel knowing she has been knocked up by a ball player either
 

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Called her up and asked her about it,

She said it was true......the pregnancy and all......and that she went through "a phase" where she liked the black basketball player type.

She told me she was with 6 of them and probably hooked up with 5 or 6 other guys during that "phase"

I just have a totally different image of her now, don't think it is going to last knowing this
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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