Okay my girlfriend has had alot of experience in the past but she alwase makes them wait like 6 months to get any. I got some one night when she was really smashed but she was not happy that i didnt stop her the next day ( she gets freaky when she is drunk). How to i get her to want to have sex. She says she wants a relationship not just something based on sex. You guys got any suggestions.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Don Juan
I'd tell her that as a guy sex is a necessity like going to the bathroom. You don't get blue balls because as a guy your supposed to wait 6 months.
If you have the cajones I'd tell her that you've already had sex, you've proven your in this for more then just sex and if she doesn't put out you'll find someone else who respects your needs too.
Lemmie give you a good example. Let say your at home and you are hungry. You head over to the refrigerator only to find that it is completely empty and barren of food. What do you do? You would get in the car and get the next best thing which would likely be some late night fast food. You sure as hell wouldn't wait 6 months let alone 6 minutes. Take that harness off and stop letting her own you. Your a man and you get what you want.
If you have the cajones I'd tell her that you've already had sex, you've proven your in this for more then just sex and if she doesn't put out you'll find someone else who respects your needs too.
Lemmie give you a good example. Let say your at home and you are hungry. You head over to the refrigerator only to find that it is completely empty and barren of food. What do you do? You would get in the car and get the next best thing which would likely be some late night fast food. You sure as hell wouldn't wait 6 months let alone 6 minutes. Take that harness off and stop letting her own you. Your a man and you get what you want.
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Don Juan
i personally dont think u have to say anything to her. As this site has stressed time and time again. Its not what u say verbally, its what u say physically. Since she is ur gf, and u dont have sex right now. Try all the tricks u learn on this site on her. The only way u can have a chance without totally pissing her off, is to get her to want u so bad that she cant control herself. u gotta seduce her man.
I think the reason why all her ex's had to wait was because she said "u have to wait" and they all said "ok" and that was it. U are DJ and far above all her other ex's. Seduce the crap out of her and turn the tables. She wants it just as bad as u. So use all the weapons on this page, to the point where u make her wait till YOUR ready
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I think the reason why all her ex's had to wait was because she said "u have to wait" and they all said "ok" and that was it. U are DJ and far above all her other ex's. Seduce the crap out of her and turn the tables. She wants it just as bad as u. So use all the weapons on this page, to the point where u make her wait till YOUR ready
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Don Juan
Just remember all her past boyfriends were likely AFC pussies who were happy enough just to have a girl they could call their girlfriend and would be willing to wait as long as it took for sex.
DJs don't wait around like that. I'd say i'm different then most your ex boyfriends and to call me when you change your mind and leave it there. If you can't be that direct that start daing on the side.