Okay my girlfriend has had alot of experience in the past but she alwase makes them wait like 6 months to get any. I got some one night when she was really smashed but she was not happy that i didnt stop her the next day ( she gets freaky when she is drunk). How to i get her to want to have sex. She says she wants a relationship not just something based on sex. You guys got any suggestions.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
what to do
- Thread starter ogduncan
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Don Juan
I'd tell her that as a guy sex is a necessity like going to the bathroom. You don't get blue balls because as a guy your supposed to wait 6 months.
If you have the cajones I'd tell her that you've already had sex, you've proven your in this for more then just sex and if she doesn't put out you'll find someone else who respects your needs too.
Lemmie give you a good example. Let say your at home and you are hungry. You head over to the refrigerator only to find that it is completely empty and barren of food. What do you do? You would get in the car and get the next best thing which would likely be some late night fast food. You sure as hell wouldn't wait 6 months let alone 6 minutes. Take that harness off and stop letting her own you. Your a man and you get what you want.
If you have the cajones I'd tell her that you've already had sex, you've proven your in this for more then just sex and if she doesn't put out you'll find someone else who respects your needs too.
Lemmie give you a good example. Let say your at home and you are hungry. You head over to the refrigerator only to find that it is completely empty and barren of food. What do you do? You would get in the car and get the next best thing which would likely be some late night fast food. You sure as hell wouldn't wait 6 months let alone 6 minutes. Take that harness off and stop letting her own you. Your a man and you get what you want.
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Don Juan
i personally dont think u have to say anything to her. As this site has stressed time and time again. Its not what u say verbally, its what u say physically. Since she is ur gf, and u dont have sex right now. Try all the tricks u learn on this site on her. The only way u can have a chance without totally pissing her off, is to get her to want u so bad that she cant control herself. u gotta seduce her man.
I think the reason why all her ex's had to wait was because she said "u have to wait" and they all said "ok" and that was it. U are DJ and far above all her other ex's. Seduce the crap out of her and turn the tables. She wants it just as bad as u. So use all the weapons on this page, to the point where u make her wait till YOUR ready
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I think the reason why all her ex's had to wait was because she said "u have to wait" and they all said "ok" and that was it. U are DJ and far above all her other ex's. Seduce the crap out of her and turn the tables. She wants it just as bad as u. So use all the weapons on this page, to the point where u make her wait till YOUR ready
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Don Juan
Just remember all her past boyfriends were likely AFC pussies who were happy enough just to have a girl they could call their girlfriend and would be willing to wait as long as it took for sex.
DJs don't wait around like that. I'd say i'm different then most your ex boyfriends and to call me when you change your mind and leave it there. If you can't be that direct that start daing on the side.