"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what to do??????!!!

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hey guys have been tlaking online to a girl that I would sorta just know to say hi because she lives near me. Well we have got on really well and she agreed to go ona date with me this sat. but I got a text last nite saying that she was also seeing another guy on friday nite and she felt bad and didn't want to mess the both of us about so she was just leeting me know and it was totally up to me if I still want'd to go or not?
this girl is really good looking and I would like a chance with her
what should I say or do?
please help!!!!!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go! What do you have to lose? The Friday night guy might be a total loser...just say "yeah Saturday will be cool, I'll meet you at X place, Z time"...easy.

And don't go all weird on her cause she's good looking. Treat and talk to her like you would one of your buddies, then move on to other things. There's nothing more that genuine good looking chicks hate than when you act all funny cause you can't stop staring at her...if she loves getting compliments on how hot she is all the time then she's not worth the hassle, let some other chump do that.
 
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any other opinions guys?
what should i tell her to show I'm not desperate
 
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Of course you should go out with her - tell her that you have a date with another chick on friday as well, so everything is ok!

If you don't want to 'look' desperate then DON"T BE desperate.

If you don't want to be a bore then do a fun activity - avoid movies and dinner!
 
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