"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what to do??????!!!

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hey guys have been tlaking online to a girl that I would sorta just know to say hi because she lives near me. Well we have got on really well and she agreed to go ona date with me this sat. but I got a text last nite saying that she was also seeing another guy on friday nite and she felt bad and didn't want to mess the both of us about so she was just leeting me know and it was totally up to me if I still want'd to go or not?
this girl is really good looking and I would like a chance with her
what should I say or do?
please help!!!!!!!!!
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go! What do you have to lose? The Friday night guy might be a total loser...just say "yeah Saturday will be cool, I'll meet you at X place, Z time"...easy.

And don't go all weird on her cause she's good looking. Treat and talk to her like you would one of your buddies, then move on to other things. There's nothing more that genuine good looking chicks hate than when you act all funny cause you can't stop staring at her...if she loves getting compliments on how hot she is all the time then she's not worth the hassle, let some other chump do that.
 
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any other opinions guys?
what should i tell her to show I'm not desperate
 
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Of course you should go out with her - tell her that you have a date with another chick on friday as well, so everything is ok!

If you don't want to 'look' desperate then DON"T BE desperate.

If you don't want to be a bore then do a fun activity - avoid movies and dinner!
 
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