I'm shy and socially awkward. I'm not a complete social outcast, and I'm definitely a whole lot better than i used to be a year or two ago where i would literally just stand awkwardly and not talk to anyone at lunches. I have several good (male) friends and a fairly large amount of friendly acquaintances that would be considered "popular" at my school and usually either go out or have someone over every weekend. I am really smart, used to play a lot of video games and basically only do advanced maths and science classes at school (with the exception of Hpe) which i feel has contributed to this but I have for the most part shaken off the nerd stereotype. However, I'm really bad at holding conversations and knowing what to say to people if I don't know them well, and so there are a total two girls outside of my family that i can talk to normally which is my good friend's girlfriend and my ex. Is there any hope for me to be good with people/girls or even normal? and If so what steps do I have to take?
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Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Of course there is hope. You just have to ask yourself if you're willing to go through some pretty bad times to get to some good times.
You will not get good fast, it will be a long slow process but if you put in the effort in the right areas, you will make progress.
You will not get good fast, it will be a long slow process but if you put in the effort in the right areas, you will make progress.
NorwegianDJ
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keep talking with people and keep practicing, during my school and college years I was the nerd, good grades but also the one with several acquantances, high school I pretty much was known and talked with half of the whole school, college i did known several people during that time, did I date a lot during that time? no most of time I didn't care enough to date anyone more then a month before I was tired of her, and that was more during college years then high school.
thing is you come ehre and have a lot of reading to do, keep calm and practice, even though what MR Wright said could scare, its the truth you will have to deal with several new things if you want to improve, so I say read the DJ bible and start to practice.
thing is you come ehre and have a lot of reading to do, keep calm and practice, even though what MR Wright said could scare, its the truth you will have to deal with several new things if you want to improve, so I say read the DJ bible and start to practice.