What to do.

[682453]

I am going to make this short and to the point with as much info as i can, i just want to know if she is worth keeping...my biggest fear is not being able to see my child.
Im 21 and shes 22
The girlfriend and i have been together for 5 years coming up
We have a kid
Both of us have cheated in the relationship i will admit i was the first to eff up but i changed my ways when i was told i was going to be a father. i found out by another mans wife she was cheating....which she denied until i received the emails. She put the blame all on me when i found out,i tried playing mister nice guy by staying with her and talking to her about trying to save the relationship. This was June of 2012, things still have not changed. Our sex life used to be great in the beginning, but in the past few years it has been on a steady decline, with sex happening at the most 2 times a month....if im lucky. Half the time she tells me things like "hurry up" or "make it quick". I've tried to do things that i did when the relationship was young but ive not had any luck. If anyone has any help im open to it all. And now it seems like she is trying to control EVERY aspect of my life, she wont let me go out and have fun with my friends, she wont even let me go buy a case of beer after a long work week or even let me buy anything for that matter.

 

[Tiguere]

too late. youve gone too far already.

 

[Down Low]

I call bvll sh1t.

It's pretty damn unlikely that a 17-year-old girl is going to want a 16-year-old boy. Also, there's no such thing as a 22-year-old man who could put up with sleeping with a young woman, but only getting sex twice a month.

I don't buy the "case of beer after a long work week" line either. He's not from a generation that puts in 50-hour weeks in the factory.

 

[682453]

You are more than welcome to call BS on whatever you want, i know what's going on in my life. I put up with it because I DON'T WANT TO LOSE MY CHILD. But thanks for your words.

 

[betheman]

Unless you actually prepare for and take control of, your own life, then you are fvcked! see a solicitor, prepare the ground for rights to have access to your daughter, (if she is your daughter) and stop being such a pu$$y, she wont lelt you buy beer ffs???