“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what to do?

ezio

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so there is this girl ive been kind of on and off with but rite now we just chatting and stuff but about three weeks ago i went completely NC on her for no reason but mostly because I didn't want to seem too available plus i needed time to concentrate more important stuff. i stopped returning her calls, txts etc.

With the app I use for txts "whatsapp" you get to see the last time your partner was online so you know for certain if they read your msg. After trying to reach out for a while she gets frustrated and asks "do you know what it means when someone ignores your txts". I ignore that txt as well though from my time stamp on the app its obvious i have received and read it.

I broke NC about two week ago, didnt offer her a reason for NC and rather clowned her for that last txt she sent. Things returned to normal between us until a week ago when she went NC on me :box: she hasnt returned any of my txt. though to be fair i sent just two. the first was a simple hi, after she didnt answer for two days i knew something was up.lol. the second was sent just yesterday, also no reply but i know she has received both txts.

i want to know what to do now, any advice on the way forward because its getting really frustrating.
i have stopped myself from calling her because if she chooses to ignore my calls as well that would be the ultimate L.

TL;DR: I go NC on girl, now girl goes NC on me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ezio

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lol nope its nothing like that..me and the girl have a sort of on and off thing going on..we get together, break up, get together again etc
 

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ezio said:
lol nope its nothing like that..me and the girl have a sort of on and off thing going on..we get together, break up, get together again etc
Oh! that's very important info to know. The NC is your call, since it's normally on and off she will probably break the NC if you keep it up. If not... whatever.
 
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