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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what to do?

ezio

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so there is this girl ive been kind of on and off with but rite now we just chatting and stuff but about three weeks ago i went completely NC on her for no reason but mostly because I didn't want to seem too available plus i needed time to concentrate more important stuff. i stopped returning her calls, txts etc.

With the app I use for txts "whatsapp" you get to see the last time your partner was online so you know for certain if they read your msg. After trying to reach out for a while she gets frustrated and asks "do you know what it means when someone ignores your txts". I ignore that txt as well though from my time stamp on the app its obvious i have received and read it.

I broke NC about two week ago, didnt offer her a reason for NC and rather clowned her for that last txt she sent. Things returned to normal between us until a week ago when she went NC on me :box: she hasnt returned any of my txt. though to be fair i sent just two. the first was a simple hi, after she didnt answer for two days i knew something was up.lol. the second was sent just yesterday, also no reply but i know she has received both txts.

i want to know what to do now, any advice on the way forward because its getting really frustrating.
i have stopped myself from calling her because if she chooses to ignore my calls as well that would be the ultimate L.

TL;DR: I go NC on girl, now girl goes NC on me
 

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ezio

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lol nope its nothing like that..me and the girl have a sort of on and off thing going on..we get together, break up, get together again etc
 

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ezio said:
lol nope its nothing like that..me and the girl have a sort of on and off thing going on..we get together, break up, get together again etc
Oh! that's very important info to know. The NC is your call, since it's normally on and off she will probably break the NC if you keep it up. If not... whatever.
 
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