"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what to do?

kevin1198

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i know this sounds like a dumb question, but i havent run into a situation like this before.

I tried chilling with this girl a couple times, but she never seemed to make it, well not to long ago i just decided to next her and let her know that since she never seems to be able hang out, im just gonna drop it.

then she explains to me that she wants to go out with me, and wants to meet me at the gym.

now what do i do, she admitted she wants to go out with me, should I
just tell her we're going out now or just meet her, talk for a bit and kiss her (This is what i usually do) but im not sure if i should do this cause there's alot of people around.

i know some of you are going to say take her out somewhere, but apparently her parents are pretty strict about some things, so it's pretty hard to get some privacy say after a movie in a theater.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Cockynfunny

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hey man, one of my best friends at college is a girl with strict parents.
She has a bf who is a complete natural I mean that guy HAS GAMEEEEE.....

But anyways her dad would castrate her boyfriend if he did anything with her that would go beyond holding hands....

What I told you above is just to set the picture so that you know the situation.

A week ago they had sex....at her boyfriend's house...

So dude, just try to take her to your place and do what ever you wanna do.


Good luck!!!!
 
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