"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kevin1198

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i know this sounds like a dumb question, but i havent run into a situation like this before.

I tried chilling with this girl a couple times, but she never seemed to make it, well not to long ago i just decided to next her and let her know that since she never seems to be able hang out, im just gonna drop it.

then she explains to me that she wants to go out with me, and wants to meet me at the gym.

now what do i do, she admitted she wants to go out with me, should I
just tell her we're going out now or just meet her, talk for a bit and kiss her (This is what i usually do) but im not sure if i should do this cause there's alot of people around.

i know some of you are going to say take her out somewhere, but apparently her parents are pretty strict about some things, so it's pretty hard to get some privacy say after a movie in a theater.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey man, one of my best friends at college is a girl with strict parents.
She has a bf who is a complete natural I mean that guy HAS GAMEEEEE.....

But anyways her dad would castrate her boyfriend if he did anything with her that would go beyond holding hands....

What I told you above is just to set the picture so that you know the situation.

A week ago they had sex....at her boyfriend's house...

So dude, just try to take her to your place and do what ever you wanna do.


Good luck!!!!
 
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