"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RedSky

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Damn, what a kick in the teeth!
The girl i really love has new boyfriend.
I had made a move on her before but she basically refused me.
I would just walk away, but i've loved this girl for ages and don't want to let her go.
Do u still think there is a chance i could get with her or should i just walk away?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Neg

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Hey Mate.
Jusy walk away. You said she refused you so next her.
I can understand that this can be difficuit considering you have loved her for ages. But, if she had any strong feeling for you she would have accepted you.
Instead of wasting your valuable time, go out and live life.
Go to parties and nights out with mates.
Improve yourself by going to the gym and self study.
This list is endless of what you could do.

Also, who knows, in few months time (or sooner) maybe she'll dump this guy and think of you again. But by then, you will be so god damn amazing, that it wont be the case of if she accepts you, but instead if you accept her!
 

DonGorgon

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RedSky said:
Damn, what a kick in the teeth!
The girl i really love has new boyfriend.
I had made a move on her before but she basically refused me.
I would just walk away, but i've loved this girl for ages and don't want to let her go.
Do u still think there is a chance i could get with her or should i just walk away?
Dont become obsessd... that is for females.. move on... find some new female distractions.
 

Mavrick

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Do you like disrespecting yourself?
Do you like stripping yourself of your own dignity?
Do you like wasting you time?
Do you like to be treated in a way that you wouldn't even treat yourself?

These are some questions you need to ask yourself because it's all you're doing. When you let someone else disrespect you, you're only disrespecting yourself. When you fawn over a woman that clearly doesn't find value in you, you're striping yourself of your own dignity. If you would let someone treat you like a dog, then you're only treating yourself like a dog. You're wasting your precious time.

There are way to many women in this world to have a great life with. So, don't waste any more time on the ones that don't care.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Groovy

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If you do the same things, she'll refuse you again.

If you change, hell yeah!

But forget her for now, think about yourself!
 
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