"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RedSky

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Damn, what a kick in the teeth!
The girl i really love has new boyfriend.
I had made a move on her before but she basically refused me.
I would just walk away, but i've loved this girl for ages and don't want to let her go.
Do u still think there is a chance i could get with her or should i just walk away?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Neg

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Hey Mate.
Jusy walk away. You said she refused you so next her.
I can understand that this can be difficuit considering you have loved her for ages. But, if she had any strong feeling for you she would have accepted you.
Instead of wasting your valuable time, go out and live life.
Go to parties and nights out with mates.
Improve yourself by going to the gym and self study.
This list is endless of what you could do.

Also, who knows, in few months time (or sooner) maybe she'll dump this guy and think of you again. But by then, you will be so god damn amazing, that it wont be the case of if she accepts you, but instead if you accept her!
 

DonGorgon

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RedSky said:
Damn, what a kick in the teeth!
The girl i really love has new boyfriend.
I had made a move on her before but she basically refused me.
I would just walk away, but i've loved this girl for ages and don't want to let her go.
Do u still think there is a chance i could get with her or should i just walk away?
Dont become obsessd... that is for females.. move on... find some new female distractions.
 

Mavrick

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Do you like disrespecting yourself?
Do you like stripping yourself of your own dignity?
Do you like wasting you time?
Do you like to be treated in a way that you wouldn't even treat yourself?

These are some questions you need to ask yourself because it's all you're doing. When you let someone else disrespect you, you're only disrespecting yourself. When you fawn over a woman that clearly doesn't find value in you, you're striping yourself of your own dignity. If you would let someone treat you like a dog, then you're only treating yourself like a dog. You're wasting your precious time.

There are way to many women in this world to have a great life with. So, don't waste any more time on the ones that don't care.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Groovy

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If you do the same things, she'll refuse you again.

If you change, hell yeah!

But forget her for now, think about yourself!
 
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