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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do without money?

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You can't start working at the gym, cuz you need paper!
also, you can't get big coz you need paper to buy alot of food.
You can't dress nicely, cuz nice shyt cost paper!
You can't go on date, cuz you need paper to buy the drinks!
All in all, you can't do your thing without any paper!

So, beside getting a job and shyt like that, what can a man without paper do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You can stop with the excuses. The reason most men fail with women is because they make excuses to justify their failures. Not good looking, rich, no nice clothes, bad childhood, are all bull**** excuses men use to justify their failures.

None of it holds water. Guys with bad clothes, acen scared faces, and cheap apartments score hot women every day in every country of the world. If you want to make excuses, no one can help you.

You want to really do something? Pushups, situps, resistance tubing, walking, swimming, and dumbbells can be done/had for next to nothing. You don't have to start off benching 400lbs. Getting in shape is a lifelong process. Start by doing whatever you can do right now.

Work with what clothes you can afford to create a style. You don't have to be sporting a hand made suit to pick up women.

Do what you can right now.
 

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Sasha: maybe u should read his post again? because it was great advice
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
Sasha: maybe u should read his post again? because it was great advice

I did it again. And now I ask again.

I pick up chick, how can I date her without paper?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If u REALLY want to date her. IF U REALLY WANT HER. You can do it without any paper. Unless she is a prostitute. Appearently your eyes are working properly, that means your brain is probably working. What might you have in the brain? You guessed it: IMAGINATION :)

You know.. there are people living in the woods their entire lives without having seen money in their entire life.

You can do whatever dude.. take a walk with the chick.. read the dj bible.. lie on the bed and think things over.. etc
 

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Public Library

I'm not fitness/style guru, but try this stuff. Should be available since I obtained all of these free of charge.

Public or Shcool library since you won't have money to buy materials: (note titles may not be exact)

Eating Well for Optimum Health. Not meant for bulking up but will provide a rough guide to healthy eating habits. I would ,however, recommend ignoring any herbal remedy advice by this author until more studies are performed.

Fitness is Religion. The walking program in this book is good.

Personal Trainer. Advice on managing injuries and deciding where you are on the path to fitness. This has helped me overcome several problems with lower legs. Many exercises that require little to no equipment.

Harvard Guide to Men's Health. Drawings of very simple workout/stretching programs that can be done with next to no equipment. Good general health advice.

Queer Eye for the Straight Guy Book: Basic fashion and grooming advice. Not enough on its own but a starting place.

As for the date, you don't have to "date: in the corny movies and dinner sense. Steal some ham sandwhiches when your mom isn't looking and take her on a picnic (the date, not the mom:). Or better yet, make her make them :) As he said, ask her to go for a walk in the park. I guess a cheap motel is out, but maybe go dogging?
 

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Here's what you can do right now - make a realistic plan to get some money and then stick to it. Really you ought to have some life goals that include career and financial goals. If you don't, start here. Now, also make some shorter-term goals and write out your tactics for achieving them. For instance, can't afford the gym - do you even know how much the gym costs, or have you ever written any sort of budget for yourself to see if this could fit in there?

One thing for sure, as much as you'd like to have nice clothes and the cash for pimpin, do not get yourself into debt. Figure out what you want and go earn it. You know what, until you get this part of your life taken care of, what business do you have chasing aroung pvssy? Priorities man, priorities. Have the mental fortitude to become successful instead of faking success. Your game with women will be a thousand times better for it in the long run!

Above all else Sasha, ask yourself this - are you going to look for solutions or are you going to whine about your problems? Hold yourself accountable.
 

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Lack of money makes you insecure. Start making money. Fix your mind on making money, work as much as you can.

You will stop worrying abouut **** like this once you get your mind into soomething worthwhile.

I want you to stop thinking about dating, or plans to date women for a month, a month in which you will ONLY work, and/or study. Only study while you get a job. But really do that, don´t just sit looking at a book thinking about dating a woman. Really get into what you are studying/working on. Do that for a month, and then start going on to the cheapest dates you can. Even if you have $200 to spare per date, don´t spend more than... $5. This will teaach you to go on chpeap dates, even if you have money to go for somethiing expensive.
 

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OK, 2 things,

1) You should stop posting repeat threads about how you have no money

2) If you are really that concerned with getting money, get a job
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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