"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do without money?

Sasha

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You can't start working at the gym, cuz you need paper!
also, you can't get big coz you need paper to buy alot of food.
You can't dress nicely, cuz nice shyt cost paper!
You can't go on date, cuz you need paper to buy the drinks!
All in all, you can't do your thing without any paper!

So, beside getting a job and shyt like that, what can a man without paper do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First

You can stop with the excuses. The reason most men fail with women is because they make excuses to justify their failures. Not good looking, rich, no nice clothes, bad childhood, are all bull**** excuses men use to justify their failures.

None of it holds water. Guys with bad clothes, acen scared faces, and cheap apartments score hot women every day in every country of the world. If you want to make excuses, no one can help you.

You want to really do something? Pushups, situps, resistance tubing, walking, swimming, and dumbbells can be done/had for next to nothing. You don't have to start off benching 400lbs. Getting in shape is a lifelong process. Start by doing whatever you can do right now.

Work with what clothes you can afford to create a style. You don't have to be sporting a hand made suit to pick up women.

Do what you can right now.
 

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Sasha: maybe u should read his post again? because it was great advice
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
Sasha: maybe u should read his post again? because it was great advice

I did it again. And now I ask again.

I pick up chick, how can I date her without paper?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If u REALLY want to date her. IF U REALLY WANT HER. You can do it without any paper. Unless she is a prostitute. Appearently your eyes are working properly, that means your brain is probably working. What might you have in the brain? You guessed it: IMAGINATION :)

You know.. there are people living in the woods their entire lives without having seen money in their entire life.

You can do whatever dude.. take a walk with the chick.. read the dj bible.. lie on the bed and think things over.. etc
 

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Public Library

I'm not fitness/style guru, but try this stuff. Should be available since I obtained all of these free of charge.

Public or Shcool library since you won't have money to buy materials: (note titles may not be exact)

Eating Well for Optimum Health. Not meant for bulking up but will provide a rough guide to healthy eating habits. I would ,however, recommend ignoring any herbal remedy advice by this author until more studies are performed.

Fitness is Religion. The walking program in this book is good.

Personal Trainer. Advice on managing injuries and deciding where you are on the path to fitness. This has helped me overcome several problems with lower legs. Many exercises that require little to no equipment.

Harvard Guide to Men's Health. Drawings of very simple workout/stretching programs that can be done with next to no equipment. Good general health advice.

Queer Eye for the Straight Guy Book: Basic fashion and grooming advice. Not enough on its own but a starting place.

As for the date, you don't have to "date: in the corny movies and dinner sense. Steal some ham sandwhiches when your mom isn't looking and take her on a picnic (the date, not the mom:). Or better yet, make her make them :) As he said, ask her to go for a walk in the park. I guess a cheap motel is out, but maybe go dogging?
 

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Here's what you can do right now - make a realistic plan to get some money and then stick to it. Really you ought to have some life goals that include career and financial goals. If you don't, start here. Now, also make some shorter-term goals and write out your tactics for achieving them. For instance, can't afford the gym - do you even know how much the gym costs, or have you ever written any sort of budget for yourself to see if this could fit in there?

One thing for sure, as much as you'd like to have nice clothes and the cash for pimpin, do not get yourself into debt. Figure out what you want and go earn it. You know what, until you get this part of your life taken care of, what business do you have chasing aroung pvssy? Priorities man, priorities. Have the mental fortitude to become successful instead of faking success. Your game with women will be a thousand times better for it in the long run!

Above all else Sasha, ask yourself this - are you going to look for solutions or are you going to whine about your problems? Hold yourself accountable.
 

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Lack of money makes you insecure. Start making money. Fix your mind on making money, work as much as you can.

You will stop worrying abouut **** like this once you get your mind into soomething worthwhile.

I want you to stop thinking about dating, or plans to date women for a month, a month in which you will ONLY work, and/or study. Only study while you get a job. But really do that, don´t just sit looking at a book thinking about dating a woman. Really get into what you are studying/working on. Do that for a month, and then start going on to the cheapest dates you can. Even if you have $200 to spare per date, don´t spend more than... $5. This will teaach you to go on chpeap dates, even if you have money to go for somethiing expensive.
 

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OK, 2 things,

1) You should stop posting repeat threads about how you have no money

2) If you are really that concerned with getting money, get a job
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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