"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to do with this girl? Seen her so many times but not at night

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kindasuave

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I met this girl in one of my classes and i've gotten lunch probably 6 times with her now after classes.. She is REALLY into me and I know that once i see her at night i will seal the deal

Problem is obviously that I haven't seen her at night yet. She's been sick, but that's over now.

How do I approach it? I feel like i've been texting her a bit too much, but I am getting more into her just because of the fact that i've spent to much time with her but haven't gotten with her.

How do I proceed now? She's not the only girl that i'm after but I am getting more into her just because of how long its been and I haven't even made out with her yet (didn't want to during the day bc she would find that weird)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sneevox

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You're allowing the feigned value of this woman to trick you into wanting her more.

What do you REALLY want in a girl? Do you want to make out with every girl, or do you want to find the girl that's right for you?

Just consider that.
 
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Pimp-sicle

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kindasuave said:
I haven't even made out with her yet (didn't want to during the day bc she would find that weird)
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What has happened to our young male population?! Addicted to staring down @their cell phones and texting/FB'ing the person right next to them instead of making eye contact and having a conversation.

If you truly think a girl would find it weird if you made out with her during the day, then you seriously need some major thought changing bootcamp style help.

Be a man, be confident and ask her out. If she's into you she will say yes, if she's not then you don't have to worry about her anymore and you can move on to your other prospects.

Remember if you fail to escalate physically you will always be left over-analyzing and wondering..... not a good place to be.








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