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What to do with this girl? Seen her so many times but not at night

kindasuave

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I met this girl in one of my classes and i've gotten lunch probably 6 times with her now after classes.. She is REALLY into me and I know that once i see her at night i will seal the deal

Problem is obviously that I haven't seen her at night yet. She's been sick, but that's over now.

How do I approach it? I feel like i've been texting her a bit too much, but I am getting more into her just because of the fact that i've spent to much time with her but haven't gotten with her.

How do I proceed now? She's not the only girl that i'm after but I am getting more into her just because of how long its been and I haven't even made out with her yet (didn't want to during the day bc she would find that weird)
 

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You're allowing the feigned value of this woman to trick you into wanting her more.

What do you REALLY want in a girl? Do you want to make out with every girl, or do you want to find the girl that's right for you?

Just consider that.
 

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kindasuave said:
I haven't even made out with her yet (didn't want to during the day bc she would find that weird)
What has happened to our young male population?! Addicted to staring down @their cell phones and texting/FB'ing the person right next to them instead of making eye contact and having a conversation.

If you truly think a girl would find it weird if you made out with her during the day, then you seriously need some major thought changing bootcamp style help.

Be a man, be confident and ask her out. If she's into you she will say yes, if she's not then you don't have to worry about her anymore and you can move on to your other prospects.

Remember if you fail to escalate physically you will always be left over-analyzing and wondering..... not a good place to be.








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