"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to do with this girl? Seen her so many times but not at night

kindasuave

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I met this girl in one of my classes and i've gotten lunch probably 6 times with her now after classes.. She is REALLY into me and I know that once i see her at night i will seal the deal

Problem is obviously that I haven't seen her at night yet. She's been sick, but that's over now.

How do I approach it? I feel like i've been texting her a bit too much, but I am getting more into her just because of the fact that i've spent to much time with her but haven't gotten with her.

How do I proceed now? She's not the only girl that i'm after but I am getting more into her just because of how long its been and I haven't even made out with her yet (didn't want to during the day bc she would find that weird)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sneevox

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You're allowing the feigned value of this woman to trick you into wanting her more.

What do you REALLY want in a girl? Do you want to make out with every girl, or do you want to find the girl that's right for you?

Just consider that.
 

Pimp-sicle

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kindasuave said:
I haven't even made out with her yet (didn't want to during the day bc she would find that weird)
What has happened to our young male population?! Addicted to staring down @their cell phones and texting/FB'ing the person right next to them instead of making eye contact and having a conversation.

If you truly think a girl would find it weird if you made out with her during the day, then you seriously need some major thought changing bootcamp style help.

Be a man, be confident and ask her out. If she's into you she will say yes, if she's not then you don't have to worry about her anymore and you can move on to your other prospects.

Remember if you fail to escalate physically you will always be left over-analyzing and wondering..... not a good place to be.








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