"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to do with this chick

Phonk Beta

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I was in a relationship with this chick for like 7 months. Back in August, she and I got into a fight and called it quits. I used to get jealous and upset a lot back when we were together. Now, were back, talking again but she says she has a semi-boyfriend now. She talks about our past quite often and subtley gives hints at wanting to get back together but seems to be interested in her new semi-bf a lot. I want to get back together with this chick but how do I do it? How do I make her dump this other prick completely?? Help me out fellas!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Phonk Beta

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so what you guys are saying is...don't make any attempts to get back with her?? Let her do what she wants until she's finally made up her mind, right?
 

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ignore her. unless you enjoy her talking about her new 'semi-bf' and also her talking about how you guys used to be great.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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