"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What to do with the 6s and 7s

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d9930380 said:
There must be alot of desparate AFC but REALLY good-looking guys out there. When everyone is saying, I'm only interested in 9s and 10s. Guys these girls are the supermodels and models of the world.
That just goes to show that who is considered a 9 or 10 depends on who you ask. I can't name one model or supermodel that I'd even consider a 9.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Flabbergasped?

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Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot said:
Marrying based on the numerical hotness is a sure way to get half your sh!t taken.
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That is an excellent question.

On the one hand, why not just go for better women? You got nothing to lose. You should keep your standards high, right?

On the other hand, why not just fvck her? It doesn't matter what a girl looks like, ***** is the biologically the same. And, I think all this "well she's a 6-7" talk is just a camoflauge for simple, everyday fear.

But on the other hand, 6-7s do occupy our time, energy, and motivation, which could help us get past the most important barrier of all: the barrier that stops us against perfect 10s. I hate that barrier, and it is something I want to get rid of, at all costs.
 
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