"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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What to do with the 6s and 7s

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I am an aspiring Don Juan, and naturally, I go for the 9s and 10s. This being so, how should I respond to 6s and 7s? One part of me says "get on 'em because they are easy game and good practice," while another side of me say that I shouldn’t hook up with these girls because then the 9 and 10s will think that they are too good for me. Do any of these thoughts have any merit?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know what a HB9-10 are but you will have to tell me what a HB6-7 actually is, I think these rating systems differ depending on the guys who are rating them.
To me personally, Jessica Simpson is a HB10, Jill Hennessey is a HB9, Keira Knightly is a HB8, Vanessa Williams is a HB7, Helen Hunt is a HB6, and as for, Heather Locklear, Nicole Kidman, Kylie Minogue, Lucy Lu, and Pamela Anderson, I am not even attracted to them in the slightest to rate them above a 5, yet all of these famous babes that I have named have been rated as being HB9-10's in many of the worlds most popular magazines of which I have read.
I have often wondered if girls feel the same about famous guys who are termed as hunks by the media, but they themselves are not very attracted to them, as I would think of both, Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt, as being hunks if I had never seen them before and met them, but I wouldn't veiw, Bruce Willis or Leonardo DiCaprio, in the same class as them in looks, if I was to meet them in a public place, yet the media claims all four to be hunks, but do all girls see it that way, this I don't know. :confused:
 

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Generally I don't look at 6's, throw 7's back, want to sleep with an 8, would marry a 9, and (if you're as picky as I am they are super rare but) you dream of and search for the 10's but I had only one date in my life with a 10.

Lots of 9's though. My average girl was about 8.5 in her prime.

Pam Anderson was nice in her February 1990 Playmate of the Month spread. She was a 10 then. Now she looks like Michael Jackson.
 

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dap said:
I am an aspiring Don Juan, and naturally, I go for the 9s and 10s.
Naturally :D

This being so, how should I respond to 6s and 7s? One part of me says "get on 'em because they are easy game and good practice," while another side of me say that I shouldn’t hook up with these girls because then the 9 and 10s will think that they are too good for me. Do any of these thoughts have any merit?
Well sometimes 6 and 7's have hot friends who you might want to end up leaving with :)

but seriously, I never turn down any girls who show interest in me. I'd rather ride a 6 or a 7 at the end of the night than go home alone (and yes, that does happen to even a fine specimin of manhood like myself) I aim for the hotties but I never turn down a fattie.
 

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Thanks for the comments.

I guess here is my main question: Do hotter girls look down on you for getting on girls that arent as hot? Also, is there any other reason to not get on these girls?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dap: there is no OBJECTIVE rating on which girl is hot or not. (unless they're very overweight and masculine, rarely wax and have bad hygine)... in the latter case yes.

If these (unhot) girls are well primmed, have good clothes, are fashionable and wear nice make-up... then, the answer is no.

It's all about your standards. Do they see you lowering your standards just in order to get some (you lose some respect for that), but they can't tell what your taste is. Get it?
 
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bigneil said:
Generally I don't look at 6's, throw 7's back, want to sleep with an 8, would marry a 9, and (if you're as picky as I am they are super rare but) you dream of and search for the 10's but I had only one date in my life with a 10.

Marrying based on the numerical hotness is a sure way to get half your sh!t taken. Unless of course you're including personality into the rating mix.
 

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dap said:
I am an aspiring Don Juan, and naturally, I go for the 9s and 10s.

I don't want a 9 or 10 because they're too full of themselves. 7 or 8s are good enough and haven't been spoiled by society nearly as much. A 7 or 8 will still make my wee wee stand up and can fvck me silly. The extra pt or two in hotness isn't worth the extra effort or crap that comes along with it.
 

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There must be alot of desparate AFC but REALLY good-looking guys out there. When everyone is saying, I'm only interested in 9s and 10s. Guys these girls are the supermodels and models of the world.

I agree with mrRuckus - REALLY good-looking girls aren't worth the effort. Looks are only important for one-night stands because once you get to know the girl, the brain will make the eye see what it wants.

"Charm is deceiving, beauty fades"
 

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dap said:
another side of me say that I shouldn’t hook up with these girls because then the 9 and 10s will think that they are too good for me
What kind of world are you living in?? so are you saying that the 9's and 10's of the world have a secret society that will check up on you if you date below their number and shun you forever??!! Get the fvck out of here with that insecurity paranoid sh1t lol.

Here is the best advice: Don't give a sh1t what anyone else thinks about you especially women. You want to fvck a 6 or a 7 go for it (you don't put a number on chicks because everyone has a different rating system, I take a page out of Mindovermatter who said that there are only 2 rating systems when it comes to women: You either want to fvck em or you don't). Just remember that you can replace women all the time if you are not happy but you can't replace you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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dap,
I can relate and understand what you are saying. I used to think that if I hooked up with anything lower than a HB8 that it would leave a stain on my lily white exterior that the HB9-10 would see right away. I stayed away from a bunch of HB6-7s for fear of damaging my chances with HB9-10s later on.

I now realize that the stain don't show- it barley exists! Its basically just in your head. So now its open to what I consider HB6 and up.

I still walk into a place and look for the hottest girl as my starting point but instead of stopping at the HB8 I keep going to the HB6.

The results are good.
 

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thats classic
 

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mrRuckus said:
I don't want a 9 or 10 because they're too full of themselves. 7 or 8s are good enough and haven't been spoiled by society nearly as much. A 7 or 8 will still make my wee wee stand up and can fvck me silly. The extra pt or two in hotness isn't worth the extra effort or crap that comes along with it.
What about Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie, they are two HB7s, who are both being spoilt fvcking rotten by the society, you wouldn't want to be with one of them my friend. :mad:
 

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Be honest about your skills and experience level. If you're a total dweeb then the 6's and 7's are good practice. You're kidding yourself to only go after 9's and 10's. If you can already hook up with 7-8's easily then ignore them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
What about Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie, they are two HB7s, who are both being spoilt fvcking rotten by the society, you wouldn't want to be with one of them my friend. :mad:
I don't even think they are 7s. They look emaciated. I wouldn't touch them. Paris herself I find not the least bit attractive at all. Seriously I don't see how anyone thinks she's hot.

And what part of my post says go ahead and date 7 or 8s that suck?
 

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mrRuckus said:
I don't even think they are 7s. They look emaciated. I wouldn't touch them. Paris herself I find not the least bit attractive at all. Seriously I don't see how anyone thinks she's hot.

And what part of my post says go ahead and date 7 or 8s that suck?
Paris Hilton is freaking hot. She is a biatch, so what? If hundreds of people would tell you since you were born that you´re the best looking, most powerful man on earth, you would start to believe them. Everyone always treated her nice because she was extremely rich. I don´t blame her for how she acts.
 

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The best-looking actresses are actually the lesser known B-listers on soaps and B-movies.

Or in porn.

Most of the top mainstream actresses are probably 6-7 on average. I mean, Jennifer Aniston, Sarah Jessica Parker, Lucy Liu? These girls are average at best, actually a bit below average...
 

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ChrizZ said:
Paris Hilton is freaking hot. She is a biatch, so what? If hundreds of people would tell you since you were born that you´re the best looking, most powerful man on earth, you would start to believe them. Everyone always treated her nice because she was extremely rich. I don´t blame her for how she acts.
I don't even know if she's a b1tch. I don't pay attention to her or watch her little tv shows.

Why don't you blame her for how she acts? Do you not blame child molesters or serial killers for what they do because they had bad childhoods?

Oh boo hoo... in the end people still make their own decisions and have brains that can figure things out. If she acts bad it's because she knows she can get away with it. And that's the definition of a good/moral person. If you still do the right thing even when you know you can get away with doing something bad instead then you're good.

Why does skin and bones qualify as hot nowadays? She needs a freakin sammich. I hate women with tiny frames. They look frail and weak. Short frames are fine but when you look like all your bones are only 5mm thick.. shudder.

starvin marvin
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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