"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do with the 6s and 7s

devoncassidy

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d9930380 said:
There must be alot of desparate AFC but REALLY good-looking guys out there. When everyone is saying, I'm only interested in 9s and 10s. Guys these girls are the supermodels and models of the world.
That just goes to show that who is considered a 9 or 10 depends on who you ask. I can't name one model or supermodel that I'd even consider a 9.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flabbergasped?

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Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot said:
Marrying based on the numerical hotness is a sure way to get half your sh!t taken.
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That is an excellent question.

On the one hand, why not just go for better women? You got nothing to lose. You should keep your standards high, right?

On the other hand, why not just fvck her? It doesn't matter what a girl looks like, ***** is the biologically the same. And, I think all this "well she's a 6-7" talk is just a camoflauge for simple, everyday fear.

But on the other hand, 6-7s do occupy our time, energy, and motivation, which could help us get past the most important barrier of all: the barrier that stops us against perfect 10s. I hate that barrier, and it is something I want to get rid of, at all costs.
 
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