"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This will be the 4th time ive met up with this girl and im always hitting doubles atleast. so were going out during the weekend and im just blank on ideas. In the past weve gone to the park, went to her house watched a movie, some party leading to some drunk lovin, we washed my car(which went over really well) and then went out for dinner. So when we were at her house she was saying she couldn't see me playing football.(During the day me and some friends just played some good old tackle football at some park) and just sayinghow she could take me so were gonna do that this weekend which is gonna lead to make out and more i know, but what to do before that is the question? any advice besides were to go? thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well ended up going to the park and playing football then laid down and made out for awhile. Then misquitos started to come out so we went to the car and headed up to this court in the hills with a view of the whole bay. Pulled the car in back wards and we sat in the back(its a suv) witht he hatch open. Some group of kids kept coming which helped and hurt my game. I got her off twice and she got me off once. My question is how do i take it to the next level anyone?
 

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look for things that are unique, that don't cost money. Such as take her to a local abandoned spot. Take her to a place that is known as haunted. Take her to something original.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When you have taken her there, ask her to be your girlfriend. Bam, sooner or later you'll be spending time at each others houses and getting bored of each other in about a year. Good Luck :).
 

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gdi said:
This will be the 4th time ive met up with this girl and im always hitting doubles atleast. so were going out during the weekend and im just blank on ideas. In the past weve gone to the park, went to her house watched a movie, some party leading to some drunk lovin, we washed my car(which went over really well) and then went out for dinner. So when we were at her house she was saying she couldn't see me playing football.(During the day me and some friends just played some good old tackle football at some park) and just sayinghow she could take me so were gonna do that this weekend which is gonna lead to make out and more i know, but what to do before that is the question? any advice besides were to go? thanks
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