This will be the 4th time ive met up with this girl and im always hitting doubles atleast. so were going out during the weekend and im just blank on ideas. In the past weve gone to the park, went to her house watched a movie, some party leading to some drunk lovin, we washed my car(which went over really well) and then went out for dinner. So when we were at her house she was saying she couldn't see me playing football.(During the day me and some friends just played some good old tackle football at some park) and just sayinghow she could take me so were gonna do that this weekend which is gonna lead to make out and more i know, but what to do before that is the question? any advice besides were to go? thanks
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What to do with her?
- Thread starter gdi
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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well ended up going to the park and playing football then laid down and made out for awhile. Then misquitos started to come out so we went to the car and headed up to this court in the hills with a view of the whole bay. Pulled the car in back wards and we sat in the back(its a suv) witht he hatch open. Some group of kids kept coming which helped and hurt my game. I got her off twice and she got me off once. My question is how do i take it to the next level anyone?
CrazyAsianBiker
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look for things that are unique, that don't cost money. Such as take her to a local abandoned spot. Take her to a place that is known as haunted. Take her to something original.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CrazyAsianBiker
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When you have taken her there, ask her to be your girlfriend. Bam, sooner or later you'll be spending time at each others houses and getting bored of each other in about a year. Good Luck 
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.dannowillbookem
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stuff a pringles can down your pants
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You see at the upper right hand side of you screen where it says "Search"?gdi said:
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