"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to do with a female friend?

tom121

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Well I am planning on meeting this chick from internet (which would be my second internet meeting LOL)

so I told her that we should go to this park
http://www.seestanleypark.com/

actually I haven't been there for a while, I feel like going there to release my about-to-explode anger by listening to the waves :D

I asked her what to do, she answer me with a "ummm" I don't know, I can't think a fun thing to do with her to give her good impression... then maybe we can become "good" friends if you know what I mean :D although she told me that she has boyfriend and didn't care how I ugly I am so thats probably off the bubbles..

so the main thing what to do with her at that place? or maybe some place in Vancouver (for those who live in British Columbia)
any fun place for friends to go to? not clubs because I can't go (19 years old to go in and I am only 18 :()


thanks
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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MadaMadaDame

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The only tip i can give you is, make sure YOU yourself are having FUN. Don't let her make you nervous, if your having fun and she's not then she's boring. Have fun, tease her but Don't TELL her you like her. If your gonna compliment her, say it in a manner like: You Know I really Like the Shape of your Face. :D Good Luck, Don't Try to impress her, just have fun, if she doesn't want to have fun, then NEXT her then.
 

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One thing I learned is that men and women can NEVER be friends. NEVER.

Listen, I had a female 'friend' once. I introduced her to my 'back then' best friend. I helped them hook up. They slept together but never got into a relationship.


Not that this girl and I bonded on what I thought to be a very strong level.


The outcome? She would ALWAYS call him, and ALWAYS ditch me to spend time with him. She would also lable him a 'friend'. And they say that women are irrational. :rolleyes:


Good thing I wasn't interested in this girl, but all this to tell you - men and women can NEVER be friends.

They will ALWAYS prioritize EVERYTHING over you. Wether its their 'girl' friends, school, job, other jerks they **** and get heart broken by, ect. If your willing to be at the bottom of her priorities - then yea, be friends. Otherwise, tough luck.



Trust me, girls don't have male 'friends', they have male 'they want to fuk' friends.
 

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YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME SEEKING A FEMALE FRIEND, WHY DON"T YOU LOOK FOR A GIRLFRIEND WHO WILL RESPECT YOU INSTEAD.

Women use their male friends as much as their male friends will let them be used. She will sleep with other men and tell you all about that over a cup of coffee, can your ego take that????
 

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Trust me, girls don't have male 'friends', they have male 'they want to fuk' friends
exactly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost In Translation

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Dee-Zy i agree with you 100%.

how many chicks am i friends with ?

none.

how many chicks call me thier friend ?

alot.


figure that out ;)



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

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yeah I know, I can't be friend with a female (from previous experience)

but its not like I want to be in a relationship right now

I just want to have sex, thats all I really want (deep down my heart) :D
 

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well according to the way you are acting - you're not going to get sex.
 

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i know lol but who knows, anything could happen, even ditched by her :rolleyes:
 
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