"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to do when you're not physically attracted to someone

JustWuzzle

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I went out with a chick I met on Pof today She was super cool. She had some very good features nice really freakin smart. She's just not the best looking, I like her but don't want to get nothing started I can't finish.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Energy25

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Sometimes girls become more attractive to you as you get to know them and their personality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Deadly_Ripped

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The only advice I can offer is: DON'T LIE TO HER. If you don't like her, then don't tell her that you like her.

If you do like her, then what are you worried about? Give it another date or two, and if she doesn't turn you on then you don't call or contact and if she does then you politely say that you didn't feel a lot of chemistry and leave it at that!
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
The only advice I can offer is: DON'T LIE TO HER.
This ^

The chemistry line is good, especially since you can back it up with "and you can't make chemistry it just had to happen, and it hasn't." and if you're having qualms about this being awkward, I mean.. Technically it's easy for you.. think about if she's into you? Then it'd suck worse for her - So just get it over with while it's early on.
 

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If I'm not into the girls I meet I make them wingwomen(friends)!...u have to be smooth in ur approach girls are sensitive..but they are so grateful to stay around in any capacity...but they have to be cute. at least a hb6-7, otherwise this won't work.

I have 3 standby wingwomen..but make sure you train them:
one of them fu*ked me up last week in AC. She got plastered & was all over me. I was closin a really cute chick & here comes my amateur wing & ripped the hat off my head. I was able to keep the set going. then she grabs my shirt like it was a handicap handrail in a bathroom. The hb9 walked away saying "it was nice talking to you"
 
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