"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do when you're not physically attracted to someone

JustWuzzle

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I went out with a chick I met on Pof today She was super cool. She had some very good features nice really freakin smart. She's just not the best looking, I like her but don't want to get nothing started I can't finish.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sometimes girls become more attractive to you as you get to know them and their personality.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deadly_Ripped

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The only advice I can offer is: DON'T LIE TO HER. If you don't like her, then don't tell her that you like her.

If you do like her, then what are you worried about? Give it another date or two, and if she doesn't turn you on then you don't call or contact and if she does then you politely say that you didn't feel a lot of chemistry and leave it at that!
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
The only advice I can offer is: DON'T LIE TO HER.
This ^

The chemistry line is good, especially since you can back it up with "and you can't make chemistry it just had to happen, and it hasn't." and if you're having qualms about this being awkward, I mean.. Technically it's easy for you.. think about if she's into you? Then it'd suck worse for her - So just get it over with while it's early on.
 

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If I'm not into the girls I meet I make them wingwomen(friends)!...u have to be smooth in ur approach girls are sensitive..but they are so grateful to stay around in any capacity...but they have to be cute. at least a hb6-7, otherwise this won't work.

I have 3 standby wingwomen..but make sure you train them:
one of them fu*ked me up last week in AC. She got plastered & was all over me. I was closin a really cute chick & here comes my amateur wing & ripped the hat off my head. I was able to keep the set going. then she grabs my shirt like it was a handicap handrail in a bathroom. The hb9 walked away saying "it was nice talking to you"
 
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