"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what to do when your wingmen get married

DJArlington

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I'm sure you have all experienced this - all of your guy friends where single are all now married, and you are thinking **** what do I do?

I'm currently in the process of rebuilding my network but when I go out, I go out to meet females, so I've met a ton of women lately, start to spin some plates hang out etc. While it's fun, on nights they are unavailable I find myself thinking, dang who can I call up? Usually, my boys and I will go out and find two or three women and just hook up that way. Now that I'm alone it's difficult.

I am most comfortable when I have a few wingmen to go out with - so guys, what do I do now? I've never in my lifetime had to go out and make new guy friends. Of course it'll all come together, just kind of wondering how to go about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MikeEdward1973

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DJArlington said:
I'm sure you have all experienced this - all of your guy friends where single are all now married, and you are thinking **** what do I do?

I'm currently in the process of rebuilding my network but when I go out, I go out to meet females, so I've met a ton of women lately, start to spin some plates hang out etc. While it's fun, on nights they are unavailable I find myself thinking, dang who can I call up? Usually, my boys and I will go out and find two or three women and just hook up that way. Now that I'm alone it's difficult.

I am most comfortable when I have a few wingmen to go out with - so guys, what do I do now? I've never in my lifetime had to go out and make new guy friends. Of course it'll all come together, just kind of wondering how to go about it.
Actually, I've been in this situation a few times. I always head down to the big local sports bar, and I make a ton of new friends that way. Make sure you're going to watch a game, not meet new people. Ironically, you meet more people that way.
 
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