"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what to do when your wingmen get married

DJArlington

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I'm sure you have all experienced this - all of your guy friends where single are all now married, and you are thinking **** what do I do?

I'm currently in the process of rebuilding my network but when I go out, I go out to meet females, so I've met a ton of women lately, start to spin some plates hang out etc. While it's fun, on nights they are unavailable I find myself thinking, dang who can I call up? Usually, my boys and I will go out and find two or three women and just hook up that way. Now that I'm alone it's difficult.

I am most comfortable when I have a few wingmen to go out with - so guys, what do I do now? I've never in my lifetime had to go out and make new guy friends. Of course it'll all come together, just kind of wondering how to go about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MikeEdward1973

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DJArlington said:
I'm sure you have all experienced this - all of your guy friends where single are all now married, and you are thinking **** what do I do?

I'm currently in the process of rebuilding my network but when I go out, I go out to meet females, so I've met a ton of women lately, start to spin some plates hang out etc. While it's fun, on nights they are unavailable I find myself thinking, dang who can I call up? Usually, my boys and I will go out and find two or three women and just hook up that way. Now that I'm alone it's difficult.

I am most comfortable when I have a few wingmen to go out with - so guys, what do I do now? I've never in my lifetime had to go out and make new guy friends. Of course it'll all come together, just kind of wondering how to go about it.
Actually, I've been in this situation a few times. I always head down to the big local sports bar, and I make a ton of new friends that way. Make sure you're going to watch a game, not meet new people. Ironically, you meet more people that way.
 
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