"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What to do when your IL drops...

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thejackofalltrades

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There's so much talk about keeping a girls IL high and whatnot, and I've learned so much from sosuave.com and this forum, but does anyone have any insight into when your interest level drops in a girl. I've never had this problem before b/c I'd just date girls pretty unseriously, but I've been in my first LTR for the last several months and it seems my IL is dropping. It's not like I just want to next her cuz I care about her and I know we're highly compatible and could have a future together, but things just feel different after several months. It's just not exciting, and there's no challenge with her. There's this desire to go back to the single life, DJing. Any of you guys have experience with this? Thanks in advance for your help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Metro3pilot

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Been there done that .....

all I can say is .......

I was with a chick for 8 years she took my falling interest as not caring for her and she accidently fell on some guys jock ..

I suggest you feel bad about leaving her as opposed to wondering if the baby is yours or if she gave you an std.
 
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Chrispy

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How about doing something new together? Like an interest course or activity that neither of you have done before.
 
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