"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do when your IL drops...

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thejackofalltrades

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There's so much talk about keeping a girls IL high and whatnot, and I've learned so much from sosuave.com and this forum, but does anyone have any insight into when your interest level drops in a girl. I've never had this problem before b/c I'd just date girls pretty unseriously, but I've been in my first LTR for the last several months and it seems my IL is dropping. It's not like I just want to next her cuz I care about her and I know we're highly compatible and could have a future together, but things just feel different after several months. It's just not exciting, and there's no challenge with her. There's this desire to go back to the single life, DJing. Any of you guys have experience with this? Thanks in advance for your help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Metro3pilot

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Been there done that .....

all I can say is .......

I was with a chick for 8 years she took my falling interest as not caring for her and she accidently fell on some guys jock ..

I suggest you feel bad about leaving her as opposed to wondering if the baby is yours or if she gave you an std.
 
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How about doing something new together? Like an interest course or activity that neither of you have done before.
 
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