"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do when women start to distance themselves?

FruitLoops

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Many a times some of us have come accross this situation where things seem to be going fine with your woman but all of a sudden she simply distances herself and start to take more time to respond to texts or in some scenarios even sometimes ignore texts.
How should one deal with such situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Many a times some of us have come accross this situation where things seem to be going fine with your woman but all of a sudden she simply distances herself and start to take more time to respond to texts or in some scenarios even sometimes ignore texts.
How should one deal with such situation?
Ignore. Let 3-7 days pass. Fill the time getting things done or doing what you want to do.
 

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Pull back or completely ignore like @mrgoodstuff just said. Stop initiating calls and texts. If it takes her 3 hours to reply to you, you take at least 6 to reply to her. I do a lot of texting with chicks and I try to keep my text fun and exciting. But when it’s pull back time my text will become dull and boring 1-2 word responses. Believe me the chicks notice the change in my excitement to talk to them and will often times I ask “What’s wrong, you seem different”. Often times that will reverse the trend and put things back to normal.
 

EyeOnThePrize

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Why waste your time on someone that isn't thrilled to be around you? Especially if you've been together a while. Disengage. You can kindly tell her you feel disrespected by her ignoring you, but if you've let it go on for a while it would be ultra cuck to say it now. Be kind, you're open to talk or go have fun times. But you're not compromising on your mission in life for her, and she'll either find that sexy or she'll leave. You're doing your thing either way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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backseatjuan

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If it's a girl you're living with then the time to dump her has come. You know how they use the term 'work things out', well you have to scrutinize deeply what it means.

If it's a girl you never fcked or fcked once or twice or fcking once in a while, then there is nothing to sweat over, give her space to do her things while you do your things.
 

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Respect must be earned. Why do you want to respect someone who is clearly doesn't respect your presence and give that person your attention just so you can be validated by him/her?

Distancing myself from unrespectful behaviors has saved me from many headaches & heartaches.
 

mrgoodstuff

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Respect must be earned. Why do you want to respect someone who is clearly doesn't respect your presence and give that person your attention just so you can be validated by him/her?

Distancing myself from unrespectful behaviors has saved me from many headaches & heartaches.
They may "like" your attention and what it gives them... But not appreciative.
 

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They have to like the sex you give them or if you short at least the specially expensive experience you give them... no woman gonna pull that sht on dck that gives her orgasms or islands and sht on your yacht, etc
I believe you shouldnt have to have a yacht for her to know the man shes dealing with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Judge their actions. Slow response in texting indicates disinterest. Move on.
 
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